Season 1, Episode 12: Davis

Show Notes


Topics We Discussed

 
  • Born in 1941, adopted privately
  • An older brother who was biological
  • Coming 'out of the fog' at age 50
  • Receiving his original birth certificate (for medical issues)
  • Finding his birth parents, both were already deceased
  • Relationship with half brothers
  • Adoptee issues that he struggles with
  • Dissasociating from his pain, learning how to connect his body back with his feelings
  • A lifetime of skin peeling issues, resolved once he faced his adoptee issues
  • The Primal Wound (Nancy Verrier), Body Keeps Score by Bessel van der Kock
  • Finding a therapist who understands adoptee issues; 'training' a therapist who doesn't
  • Paul Sunderland Lecture "Adoption & Addiction, Remembered Not Recalled"
  • The difficulty explaining adoptee issues to those who aren't adopted
  • What can trigger coming 'out of the fog': pregnancy, mid-life crisis
  • Healing and connecting feelings to his body, therapy and writing
  • Power of writing and sharing/speaking our stories out loud
  • Importance of adoptee/adoption support groups

Recommended Resources

 
  • Adoption at the Movies
  • Connect with other adoptees!
  • Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship by Laurence Heller, PhD & Aline LaPierre PsyD

Free Download

Davis Peticolas has recorded his excellent essay, Am I Blood or Am I Water? and you can download the mp3 file here

The full text of this essay can be found on the Adult Adoptee Support blog here.


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